For the past few years, I’ve chosen a word to carry with me into the coming new year. A word that I could use to help me focus my goals and center my thoughts. A word that could help me bring more intention to my daily life and refinement to my year as a whole.
Last year, I chose two words! (You can read that post, here.)
This year, though, I’m going to do something different. Continue reading I’m Not Setting Goals For The New Year… Here’s Why
There is a lot on my mind this morning.
It’s early. Montgomery was fussy most of yesterday (Sunday), and after a fussy early morning I decided to just get up.
I’ve been trying to do that. Fight things less. Continue reading Days (and Dreams) Restored
I have a daughter, and I think she is the most beautiful little girl in all the world. She absolutely delights me.
The other day, we were getting ready together. I noticed her soft, round little features. I noticed the way she crinkled up her nose to smile. I noticed her confidence as she stuck her belly out and look in the mirror. I noticed her contentment with picking clothes she liked, detached from any sort of expectation of how they looked on her body. And I thought with a sinking feeling, not for the first time, that I wished I could bottle up this confidence for her and help her keep it forever.
The topic of body image scares me for her. Continue reading What We Tell Our Daughters
Sometimes I feel caught between wanting to continue to grow and always make myself better, and feeling discouraged by the voices of “inspiration.”
Can you relate?
It can feel like such a fine line. The line between seeing where WE are and where THEY are and allowing it to either speak inspiration or discouragement over our life. Continue reading Discern What Matters To You, So You Can Do What Matters
I don’t give a lot of birth advice to other moms. Birth is a sensitive subject. I’m always happy to share my thoughts and experience when asked, but I’m careful to never impose what I care about in regards to birth on others. My journey is my journey, your journey is yours. But there is one topic that I’d love to address simply because I don’t think there is a lot of great information out there, and, as in every aspect of life, knowledge is power.
Knowledge is especially power when you are pregnant. In particular, knowledge that is pro mom, pro baby, and grounded in a belief in a woman’s ability to have that baby. For that reason, I’d love to share with you today why we have used a doula for each of our birth experiences! Continue reading The Only Birth Advice I Give Out – Use a Doula
We talk A LOT about impulse control in our house. My two oldest boys have exactly zero self control. This, I hear, is developmentally normal. I was told the horrifying statistic that boys will struggle with impulse control – and all things prefrontal cortex related – well into their twenties. Their twenties, for goodness sake! Lord help me.
For this reason, I try to talk to my boys openly and honestly about cause and effect to help them start to become aware of their actions, which will hopefully have an impact on helping them develop the kind of self control that thinks first and acts second. Continue reading My Boys, My Phone, and Me
We’ve been working on something new in our family.
Or, to be more specific, we’ve been working on not working, in our family. Continue reading Our New Favorite Day (and Our New Favorite Park)
This post – these words – have been swirling around in my heart for awhile now. I hope I can do them justice. Continue reading I AM Critical
If it weren’t for my bookmarks tab, I’m not sure I could have found my way to my blog tonight. And I’m only sort of kidding.
Hi. Hey. How are you?
I logged on tonight to tell you I’m doing fine. I logged on to write a few words down because my soul longs to write. I logged on because I’m trying to sort things out and this space – writing, blogging, talking here with you – is how I make sense of the jumble inside my brain.
So life, lately. It’s been…. Continue reading Finding A Rhythm of Rest
Mike and I (and baby Monty) spent the past weekend celebrating our 13th wedding anniversary by exploring Cleveland, eating all.the.things, and enjoying some time together away from home and our normal day to day. It was refreshing and relaxing and so much fun. I love spending time with Mike more than anything in the world. (I’m still working on finding a way to get paid just to hang out together. There has to be a way! 😉 ) Continue reading Assume The Best